1:- Become Conscious of the Things that go Through Your Mind:-
Don’t become alarmed
over the number of negative thoughts that are running through your head. If it
happens and you notice it, then let it go and avoid talking about it aloud to
colleagues, friends and managers. As well, think of the ways in which you can
change your negative thoughts into something positive.
For example, you can change “I am not getting any sales today” thought into “The sales environment is challenging but I am up for it.” Give it a try!
2:- Change the Way you Feel:-
For example, you can change “I am not getting any sales today” thought into “The sales environment is challenging but I am up for it.” Give it a try!
2:- Change the Way you Feel:-
This is the most
difficult part of the process. To unfreeze the feelings you want replaced and
refreeze the new ones, begin by visualizing the outcome(s) you desire. The
outcome must be real and measurable and something that you can achieve in a
decent period of time.
3:- Take Affirmative Action:-
3:- Take Affirmative Action:-
If no action is
taken, change will never take place. Actively go about your day and apply what
you have learned every time there is an opportunity. It will be difficult to do
so at beginning, but if you have the perseverance and the strength, you will be
able to over come your negative thinking.
4:-Surround Yourself with Positive People:-
4:-Surround Yourself with Positive People:-
Call upon a friend
or colleague who you know could give you constructive, yet positive feedback.
When you’re stuck in a negative spiral, talk to people who can put things into
perspective and won’t feed your negative thoughts. Two negatives, don’t always
make a positive